Whenever possible, expect you’ll end up being the one who makes the very first move. “I get one immutable truth to give out: kinky folks are all nerds, & most nerds are embarrassing, ” Chingy writes at Autostraddle. Truth.

Whenever possible, expect you’ll end up being the one who makes the very first move. “I get one immutable truth to give out: kinky folks are all nerds, & most nerds are embarrassing, ” Chingy writes at Autostraddle. Truth.